Tuesday, December 30, 2014
My Gutsy Story Anthology!
You simply MUST check out this new book by Sonia Marsh, author of Freeways to Flip-Flops: A Family's Year of Gusty Living on a Tropical Island. My Gutsy Story Anthology is the second book in her anthology series which is a collection of inspirational short stories submitted to Sonia's blog, Gutsy Living.
Sonia Marsh uprooted her family and spent a year living in Belize where her entire family learned a whole new way of living, as well as, a whole new appreciation for the things that so many of us take for granted. Her blog, Gutsy Living, started as a working palette for her book, Freeways. She received a flood of "you go, girl" responses from readers regarding her story. In addition her readers began relating gutsy stories of their own. She asked her readers to write about their experiences and submit them for posting on her blog. From there, the submissions were compiled into My Gutsy Story Anthology (number one). As more stories have been submitted a second anthology (this one) was published. A third is in the works as we speak (or read)! Please check out her books on Amazon where you will learn about Sonia, and the very inspiring stories she has chosen to publish.
Sonia has been an incredible source of inspiration and encouragement for me and my writing. She is always on the prowl for writing tools, classes, and events to help aspiring authors improve their talents. There is always someone giving a talk on "how to" or "how I did" become a successful writer, and Sonia makes sure that everyone knows when and where the talk will take place! If she only lived in Chicago....
Thanks so much for stopping by today. And please take a few minutes to check out her books...especially this one...you may just recognize the name of one of the authors...on page 17!
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Thursday, November 6, 2014
Gridiron and Tutus
Welcome to Writer's Workshop, a weekly collection of posts by very creative bloggers who are inspired by prompts offered by Mama Kat. This week I was drawn to the prompt of "football." I used to be a die-hard Rams fan when they were in Los Angeles. However, when they moved...and I moved...ironically to the same new city...my interest wained and I found other outlets to replace the over-priced tickets, parking, snacks....etc.! I found that my kids loved sports and I could enjoy a good soccer or football game from the comfort of my beach chairs and blanket!
I was elated when my boys showed an interest in playing football. I grew up watching my brothers play and watching games on TV with my dad. I even dreamed of playing myself, but it was unheard of girls playing football back in the 60's! I still loved the game, just not the dog-and-pony show that it had become. My boys played through middle and high school, and that was enough for me. I knew that at some point, it would end...I thought.
It was then that Edwina, my middle schooler at the time, expressed an interest in playing football. She had played soccer, basketball, volleyball and took dance classes. The Mister and I talked it over and agreed to let her give it a try, but she had to agree to finish the whole season, even if she hated it! She was so excited, I thought she would jump out of her skin. We found a local football organization that had never had a girl play, but that had nothing in their charter that prohibited girls from playing. They let her register. I don't know who was more excited...Edwina or mom! I couldn't wait to watch another child of mine play the game!
The practices were grueling but she hung in there for all of them. The majority of her teammates treated her as an equal, although there were a few that just couldn't accept that there was a "girl" on their team! She was just as strong as any of the boys, but her conditioning was not on the same level. She never let them see her sweat and she never complained of pain!
The day of her first game arrived. It was August...hot and muggy! After the second play, she realized just how out of condition she was and asked the coach to take her out of the game!!! The coach made her stay in and told her never to make that request again! As the season progressed, Edwina gained the confidence, the strength and the determination of a true football player and could stand toe to toe with anyone...in her division! She became quick and agile, and even sacked a few quarterbacks.
Edwina understood the plays and strategies of the game and when asked questions by the coaches she was the first to get that hand up in the air. She could talk football with anyone (except her girlfriends...they just didn't understand...but they loved to come to her games and check out the "boy" players!) She managed to get through two seasons with no major injuries, just bumps and bruises. I was called into the school nurse's office to explain some of those "bumps and bruises."
By the time Ed reached high school, the boys on her team had grown into much larger players than when she first played with them. Her 5'3" stature, along with her lack of really, really large muscle mass, helped with the decision to not play another year. She legally could have joined the team, but my head and heart felt that she would either get hurt while playing, or get frustrated sitting on the bench. Thank God for Field Hockey!
Ed will always have those memories, and so will I! In a way, I finally got to experience playing the game through her. She taught me that sometimes dreams can come true if we are willing to work hard and be prepared for the best.
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Sunday, November 2, 2014
SIMC - Kentucky Style
Got me some good 'ole Southern hospitality recently. Mr. NE and I are fortunate to have friends who run a Bed and Breakfast in the city of Bardstown, Kentucky. Several years ago, we were guests at "Shadowlawn" (Bardstown) where we enjoyed the company of old and new friends, and soaked up the history of a part of the country we had never seen.
The house was built in 1815 and has a plethora of historical information. It has weathered many owners who have shared stories every time the house was sold. This house has charm and beauty no matter where you are standing or sitting. Oh, and did I mention that there are resident ghosts dwelling at Shadowlawn? It is both welcoming and eerie at the same time. The basement light must stay on 24/7. Yes, there is electricity, as well as, toilets that flush. A part of the attic has a locked door to a small area. My curiosity was not strong enough to find out what was on the other side of that door. Actually, I was plain gutless.
Downtown is small and charming. One can walk around and see original buildings that have been renovated to become restaurants, shops and other B&Bs. Houses that are on the National Historical Society list line each and every street. There are 100 year-old trees that line these same streets. Oh, to be a branch on one of those trees over time, and watch how life has changed!
The most popular beverage is Bourbon. We took a tour of a distillery and learned just how hard people still work to make a good product. I did not test a sample at the end of the tour, but my friends did. I enjoyed watching them smile as the velvet liquid worked its way through their system. No, they weren't drunk....just very happy.
What a wonderful weekend we had...away from the kids (the dog - the kids have been away from us for some time, now!). It's a 6-hour drive from Chicago...just enough time to listen to a thriller of a book on tape..."Hold Tight" by Harlan Coben.
I live in Chicago, Illinois...but sometimes I visit other places, like Bardstown, Kentucky! Welcome to my city!
Please stop by Unknown Mami's Sundays in My City (even though it's now Monday) and read about some very lovely places that you may want to visit someday.
Thank you for stopping by today.
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Friday, October 31, 2014
Fragments of a Workin' Stiff!
I've been away....way, way away! Like the way, way back of the mini-van! It's the place where nobody wants to be because one misses all the action when one is in the "way way back!"
For two years, I have been looking for full time work, all the time brushing up on "Office Gossip 101" and how to politely tell someone to "get lost" without them knowing it until I have made my escape! I feel lucky to have found a part time job in retail, along with a few "temp" jobs through the one million agencies with which I am registered! Well, guess what? I have been working a temp job for three months...a 9-5er...M-F...and I'm so exhausted that I can't write as often as I was accustomed to writing! I thought it was a phase and I just needed to "get over the honeymoon" and all would be hunky-dory! I'm still pooped! Well, welcome back to the real world baby! How do so many of you manage? I guess it's like cooking all day Sunday to make meals for the week because-you-know-how-exhausted-you-are-gonna-be-and-don't-really-want-to-cook-during-the-week... Yeah, something like that!
I'm blessed to be working, but am feeling guilty about not writing more. I think I will try the Sunday writing blitz and see what happens! I've missed reading my "regulars" and have missed putting in my two cents every now and then, as well! I plan to play catch up with everyone!
We had flurries this morning in Chicago! The wind has kicked up and Walenda is walking the rope this weekend! A few extra prayers would be appreciated, I'm sure!
I must have seen a thousand Elsa Princesses this week! That's okay...she's my new favorite. What a voice, too! Hope everyone had a great Halloween! And for those pumpkins that didn't get carved... hang on to them for front porch snowmen decorations! No, Tom Cruise does not come with the pumpkin...sorry ladies!
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Thanks for stopping by today. Have a "oh-great-we-get-to-sleep-an-extra-hour" weekend full of fun stuff with good people!
Thursday, August 14, 2014
FF - Dizzy Miss Lizzy!
Welcome to Friday Fragments, a safe haven for exhaling from a busy week, and sharing with others all of the fun stuff going on in our lives! Mrs4444, the hostess with the mostest, rocks as she invites many to come together for a virtual cup of coffee while we are still in our jammies!
I'm a little dizzy and my name is Lizzy... (I wanted to insert a YouTube video here, but once again, techno-challenged me...if I figure it out later, I'll come back!)
I remember how I beamed when I heard the Beatles' "Dizzy Miss Lizzy" on the radio. "They know who I am! They made a song about me!" How many other "Lizzys" were feeling just like me? I'll bet a gazillion! Just as Rita, Roberta, Michelle and dozens of other girls were mentioned in their songs, the Beatles made us feel like we were personal friends of theirs...just one of the many reasons why we loved them so much!
Today, Dizzy Miss Lizzy takes on a new meaning for me. I have a condition called Benign Paroxysmal Positional Vertigo (BPPV). It has come and gone a few times during the last five years or so, but the most recent bout began about a month ago. Sometimes I feel like I'm spinning (or drunk) and other times, the room...or world around me, is spinning. Either way, it has not been fun. In the past, I've managed it with motion sickness pills and the dizziness has gone away. This time, has not been so easy. I've been treated with medication and physical therapy...yes, there is physical therapy for your inner ear! Mr. No Excuses compares the therapy to one of those little games from the Cracker Jack boxes where you have to manipulate a little box to get the silver ball to go through a small hole to get to the other side. The therapist manipulates my head into positions that will cause the loose particles in the wrong place along the loops of my inner ear to find their way to the right place. It's not painful, but it does make me want to throw up...for about three hours! One session down; two to go! And then, I will be HEALED...please give me an AMEN!
I started a new job in a REAL office, with REAL computers and telephones and stuff. They sell x-ray equipment to dentists all over the world. Don't worry, though, I won't be exposed to any radiation...although, maybe it could help my dizziness! Wish me luck! It's a great place to work and the people are very friendly, funny, silly, and wear cool clothes!
I'm praying for those in my old home state of Missouri. Will you join me? We all need a time-out right now to stop, think and figure out how we can fix it. I am reminded of the 60's riots in Watts, CA and the 90's riots in Los Angeles after the Rodney King incident. We need to learn from our mistakes...all of us. It was scary to live there years ago. I knew people who knew people who were involved. I know of blogger friends who live just a few miles from where the hot spots are right now. Hopefully, we can get through this one soon!
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I'm a little dizzy and my name is Lizzy... (I wanted to insert a YouTube video here, but once again, techno-challenged me...if I figure it out later, I'll come back!)
I remember how I beamed when I heard the Beatles' "Dizzy Miss Lizzy" on the radio. "They know who I am! They made a song about me!" How many other "Lizzys" were feeling just like me? I'll bet a gazillion! Just as Rita, Roberta, Michelle and dozens of other girls were mentioned in their songs, the Beatles made us feel like we were personal friends of theirs...just one of the many reasons why we loved them so much!
Today, Dizzy Miss Lizzy takes on a new meaning for me. I have a condition called Benign Paroxysmal Positional Vertigo (BPPV). It has come and gone a few times during the last five years or so, but the most recent bout began about a month ago. Sometimes I feel like I'm spinning (or drunk) and other times, the room...or world around me, is spinning. Either way, it has not been fun. In the past, I've managed it with motion sickness pills and the dizziness has gone away. This time, has not been so easy. I've been treated with medication and physical therapy...yes, there is physical therapy for your inner ear! Mr. No Excuses compares the therapy to one of those little games from the Cracker Jack boxes where you have to manipulate a little box to get the silver ball to go through a small hole to get to the other side. The therapist manipulates my head into positions that will cause the loose particles in the wrong place along the loops of my inner ear to find their way to the right place. It's not painful, but it does make me want to throw up...for about three hours! One session down; two to go! And then, I will be HEALED...please give me an AMEN!
I started a new job in a REAL office, with REAL computers and telephones and stuff. They sell x-ray equipment to dentists all over the world. Don't worry, though, I won't be exposed to any radiation...although, maybe it could help my dizziness! Wish me luck! It's a great place to work and the people are very friendly, funny, silly, and wear cool clothes!
I'm praying for those in my old home state of Missouri. Will you join me? We all need a time-out right now to stop, think and figure out how we can fix it. I am reminded of the 60's riots in Watts, CA and the 90's riots in Los Angeles after the Rodney King incident. We need to learn from our mistakes...all of us. It was scary to live there years ago. I knew people who knew people who were involved. I know of blogger friends who live just a few miles from where the hot spots are right now. Hopefully, we can get through this one soon!
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Friday, July 18, 2014
FF - Feeling Pretty Good!
I feel good...na na na na na na na...
Like I knew that I would...na na na na na na na!
So good...so good...that I got you!
Oh James, your music is ageless and classic! My grand kids will be lip syncing to your songs at their school variety shows! Thank you for your talents and gifts!
I am amazed at how music can affect my moods, especially when I having trouble finding my happy place. Music always brings me to that place. How about you? I love how some songs will bring out some of my best memories, and then others just make me want to throw up. I only play the feel good songs while I'm driving in my car!
My place of work has several tracts of background music playing at all times. Sometimes the songs are country or patriotic, but lately most of the music has been 60's, 70's and 80's. I find that my work is a happy place when the music reminds me of my misguided youth! All of those crazy "fall-in-love" songs, or dance party music...the parties where some of us played those kissing games! Oh, to be 14 again!
In addition to music, I'm always looking for inspiration and motivation. One of my (and I have several) addictions is the "face" book thing! It is so bad, that I have to put the kitchen timer on to let me know when my "time" is up for this session. But I must say that this particular media site has brought me back in touch with many childhood friends, as well as, a form of communication (okay, okay...a peek at who is doing what) with my kids who are 300 miles away.
I came across a site that has been around for a few years, but new to me. It's called "Queen of Your Own Life" and is my favorite "go to and feel good" site. It was started a few years ago by two very gifted women who wanted to help women learn to become empowered. Kathy Kinney and Cindy Ratzlaff have written books about being Queen of your life. In addition, their blog is filled with all sorts of fun information!
They frequently post on the face place with vintage pictures of women and a sentence or two about finding the courage, strength and desire to have a more fulfilling life. I can't say enough about how their posts have influenced and encouraged me to get out there and find joy in my day...every day! Stop by and see for yourself!
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Like I knew that I would...na na na na na na na!
So good...so good...that I got you!
Oh James, your music is ageless and classic! My grand kids will be lip syncing to your songs at their school variety shows! Thank you for your talents and gifts!
I am amazed at how music can affect my moods, especially when I having trouble finding my happy place. Music always brings me to that place. How about you? I love how some songs will bring out some of my best memories, and then others just make me want to throw up. I only play the feel good songs while I'm driving in my car!
My place of work has several tracts of background music playing at all times. Sometimes the songs are country or patriotic, but lately most of the music has been 60's, 70's and 80's. I find that my work is a happy place when the music reminds me of my misguided youth! All of those crazy "fall-in-love" songs, or dance party music...the parties where some of us played those kissing games! Oh, to be 14 again!
In addition to music, I'm always looking for inspiration and motivation. One of my (and I have several) addictions is the "face" book thing! It is so bad, that I have to put the kitchen timer on to let me know when my "time" is up for this session. But I must say that this particular media site has brought me back in touch with many childhood friends, as well as, a form of communication (okay, okay...a peek at who is doing what) with my kids who are 300 miles away.
I came across a site that has been around for a few years, but new to me. It's called "Queen of Your Own Life" and is my favorite "go to and feel good" site. It was started a few years ago by two very gifted women who wanted to help women learn to become empowered. Kathy Kinney and Cindy Ratzlaff have written books about being Queen of your life. In addition, their blog is filled with all sorts of fun information!
They frequently post on the face place with vintage pictures of women and a sentence or two about finding the courage, strength and desire to have a more fulfilling life. I can't say enough about how their posts have influenced and encouraged me to get out there and find joy in my day...every day! Stop by and see for yourself!
This post is offered as part of Friday Fragments, a delightful weekly place where I love to visit! Just click on the logo below and see what other friends of this site are doing!
Have a glorious and royal weekend...and thanks for stopping by!
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Friday, June 6, 2014
FF - Yay for Summer BBQ!
Welcome to Friday Fragments, a place to come and exhale after a long (or short) week full of excitement, stress, work, play and other activities! Thanks to Mrs4444 (pronounced "Mrs. Fours") of Half Past Kissin' Time for sponsoring this delightful respite for writers and readers alike. Please click on her logo at the end of this post to see what her other loyal fans have been up to lately!
This past Monday was Mr. NoExcuses' birthday. On Sunday, this conversation transpired:
Me: Tomorrow is your birthday. Where would you like to go to dinner? We can go anywhere you want!
Him: How about if we BBQ? This way I can have exactly what I want and stay in my jammies, too!
Me: Alrighty, then...BBQ it is.
Here's a photo of the finished product. I cooked the rice...the rice that comes in a package and all you do is boil water. That was my birthday gift. Oh, and I bought him a card, too! I may not be so lucky next time! Mr. cooked the rest and I have to admit, there is no restaurant that could have provided a more perfect meal...while wearing jammies!
Thanks for stopping by today. Hope your weekend is perfect!
This past Monday was Mr. NoExcuses' birthday. On Sunday, this conversation transpired:
Me: Tomorrow is your birthday. Where would you like to go to dinner? We can go anywhere you want!
Him: How about if we BBQ? This way I can have exactly what I want and stay in my jammies, too!
Me: Alrighty, then...BBQ it is.
Here's a photo of the finished product. I cooked the rice...the rice that comes in a package and all you do is boil water. That was my birthday gift. Oh, and I bought him a card, too! I may not be so lucky next time! Mr. cooked the rest and I have to admit, there is no restaurant that could have provided a more perfect meal...while wearing jammies!
Thanks for stopping by today. Hope your weekend is perfect!
Sunday, May 18, 2014
Finding In-N-Out In The Midwest!
This SoCal girl loves her In-N-Out Burger! Nobody, and I mean NOBODY, has been able to come even close to the I'm-so-happy-feeling that I get EVERY TIME I eat at In-N-Out! Since moving to the Midwest 20 years ago, I've only been able to enjoy my favorite burger a handful of times when I was either in California or Las Vegas! I've sent emails to I-N-O begging them to open a franchise close to where I live. I know, I know...it's not all about me...it's just business. I get it!
Well, if there is anyone out there who shares my opinion and joy of the best burgers in the world, I want you to know about Van's Frozen Custard and Burgers in East Dundee, IL. Click here if you want to drool voraciously and learn more about them! My Mother's Day gift was to have lunch at Van's (upon the recommendation of another happy I-N-O customer). It was the best Mom's Day gift ever...except for the days that my darlings made me breakfast in bed!
Van's is a family owned and independent business started in 2007 by Chad Van Acker and his parents. Visit their website to get a glimpse of their mouth-watering menu (click the link in bold above). It's an eatery that offers treat of frozen custard (ice cream to most of us...but better!) or a meal that includes all of the food groups!
I was warmly welcomed by both Nancy and Rick (Chad's parents) and made to feel comfortable immediately. They are close to my age, which always gives me a good feeling to see my peers in a successful business. The building is located on a corner in the downtown area of East Dundee, a place that still has a "small town" feeling. The decor is casual and very family-oriented. As my hubs and I savored every morsel of our burgers and fries, we watched as other families came in to the restaurant, all with smiles on their faces. I figured they were repeat customers and knew exactly what they wanted. Nobody left without ear-to-ear smiles on their faces!
So, the verdict...I give Van's a 20 out of 10 licks for making this Cali girl smile, knowing she'll "be back" for more! Thank you, Van's!! See you soon!
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Friday, May 16, 2014
Frags, Anyone?
Well, howdy doody all! Hope your week has been filled with challenge, excitement, drama and maybe even something fun for someone in your life!
You know that saying, "God never gives you more than you can handle?" Ahem....well, my "handle" bar was lifted when I wasn't looking! I thought I would collapse from stress overload, but I didn't. I'm alive today to tell about how the guy upstairs continues to come through for me...time after time!
A few weekends ago, I was packing up what was left (after purging, selling or otherwise disposing) of 35 years of stuff to be moved to a 10'x20' shared garage close to my current dream home (a one-bedroom apartment). After trekking 300 miles south, we loaded the truck, kissed the house goodbye and trekked back to the dream house...all within 24 hours. Two days later, we received closing documents, got them notarized and over-nighted back (not without a hiccup) and closed the deal completely. The following day, the front porch balcony of the dream home was to be torn down and rebuilt, so we moved food and clothes for 10 days to another dream home about a football field away. I'm grateful the dog continued to relieve herself outside and not in the new dream house.
The new balcony is almost finished, we no longer have a mortgage payment, and our adventure in paradise begins with no ties to the "old world", except for my four little darlings...who live 300 miles away...who can no longer "pop" in when they are in the neighborhood. I am breathing again...I'm walking on sunshine...and it feels good!
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P.S.: I LOVE and desperately miss my darlings!
Thursday, April 17, 2014
Friday Fluffing Fragments!
Well, now that winter is finally skulking away (knock on wood/my head), we can all get on with our lives! For instance, we can walk the dog in regular shoes (instead of snow/rain boots); we don't have to put on six layers of clothing just to take the dog out to pee; we don't have to start the car 15 minutes before we leave for work so that it is warm by the time we want to leave; and, we can stop wearing turtle-neck shirts! We can NOW wear long, baggy t-shirts so that we can wipe our runny noses from the rash of allergies we get to experience from the blossoming of spring! I'm grateful for the change of seasons.
After six months of cleaning, replacing, purging, donating, crying, arguing, purging, crying and arguing... our home in St. Louis has found a new owner. In a few weeks, we will take what is left of our belongings, throw them in the back of a pick-up truck and drive them to a garage near our new home in Chicago. It's sort of like a "reverse" Beverly Hillbillies! Downsizing from a four bedroom house to a one bedroom apartment, is not the end of the world, but it sure makes for a great lesson in humility. (Do I really need this stuff????) I am grateful for a roof over my head, and a garage to store my mother's china.
I can't decide if it's the added vegetables or pro biotic supplement I'm taking, but I seem to be having an enormous case of the fluffs. (You know...farts) Then again, it could just be my age... I'm fine when I'm out walking the dog...she doesn't seem to mind...she even answers back on occasion! But, to say it is embarrassing/humiliating/humbling/mortifying when it happens at work, is to understate. There is no escape when one is standing behind a register and mother nature decides it's time to release her "trumpets." On occasion, I have planned a quick getaway when I have been privy to an oncoming "concert" but most of the time, I do not have a premonition... SURPRISE!!! I guess that's why I keep getting assigned shifts where I'm alone...ya think? Oh, well. I guess it's better to let 'em rip than keep them in. I might blow up like a hot air balloon and drift away! Wow...what a great view I would have! I think I would find this mode of transportation a little more interesting than my drive in daily traffic! However, landing could be a problem... I'm grateful that my bodily functions work!
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Sunday, March 16, 2014
Still A Babe...in Chicago!
Yesterday at work I had a special assignment...guarding the fitting rooms in the Juniors Department! We were expecting an onslaught of teens to try on prom dresses...yes, moms, it's that time of the year again! I was ready with my "I'm the mom and you will not take in more than six items at a time" look!
We had a special guest who has exploded on the blog and You Tube scene with her fresh, perky and very uplifting attitude towards helping teenage girls learn to feel better about themselves. Her name is Meredith Foster, and if you haven't heard of her, I would HIGHLY recommend that you google her and meet this wonderful young lady! Meredith was the guest speaker at a fashion show being held to draw in customers to the department. She delivered an extraordinary performance as she introduced the teen models (who, by the way, were all drop dead gorgeous with very little make-up and professional all the way). She inserted her wonderful and quirky personality as she spoke, and conveyed her message, as well as ours, with perfection! After the show, she took pictures with teens and signed autographs, never losing her upbeat demeanor and beautiful smile!
Then....the fitting rooms began to fill...and I began my special assignment! I loved it...and for the most part, everyone enjoyed themselves! Oh, the dresses did flow, and I can safely say that the Juniors Department had a very good day!
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Thursday, March 6, 2014
Writer's Workshop - Advice My Mother Gave Me
As I woke up from anesthesia the first thing I saw was my
mother’s smiling face. My first born had
just arrived and she told me he was perfect!
I had hoped for a natural birth, but he didn’t progress after the first
24 hours of labor. He didn’t even
progress after the next 12 hours of labor, six of which were under the
“let’s-get-this-baby-out” helpful childbirth drug called Pitocin. The
umbilical cord was wrapped around his precious little head, just at the right
spot to keep him from coming into this world naturally. He arrived just as God planned for him to
arrive…healthy, alert and gorgeous! That’s all that mattered to me.
My mother looked me straight in the eyes and said, “YOU CAN
DO ANYTHING.” I smiled and cried because
my mother knew stuff. When she gave
advice, I followed it because she was always right. She died three months later. To this day, I can still see her face and
hear her voice whenever I think I might fail at something. Her words continue to give me the courage to
move forward.
I try to convey this same message to my children every
chance I get.
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Thursday, January 9, 2014
What a Difference 10 Years Makes!
I’ve been waiting for the right time to tell my story…I
guess it’s now! I’m hoping it will touch
at least one person out there who wants to make a change in their life. It can happen. It took me a while to figure out who I wanted
to be and where I wanted to go. Once I
got to the bottom of the barrel, there was no place to go but up. So, up I went…and I’m still rising!
My “Before” picture is about 10 years old. I was retiring from my job as a preschool
teacher assistant. I weighed 250
pounds. I had many physical aches &
pains, but the most important reason for leaving was that I felt I could no
longer do my job with confidence and competence. I could no longer get down on the floor with
the children; I had to sit in a chair.
Even bending over to help them with projects or playing with them on the
playground was very difficult for me. The kids at the preschool were my primary
concern, and I felt that I was letting them down, as well as the school, by not
being 100% there for them. Leaving the
preschool was a tremendous tug at my heart.
I loved my job and I loved all of my co-workers.
I took a secretarial job a few months later with a middle
school close to home. Being sedentary
didn’t help me too much with my aches and pains, but I no longer was expected
to be as physically involved as I was at the preschool. I enjoyed my job, and most of the people with
whom I worked, but there was still something missing. I was miserable with my weight and the fact
that I was unable to do anything about it. I had been on a plethora of diets
throughout my life with either short-lived or no results. I hated myself and felt like a failure! I remembered a support group that that I
belonged to years earlier that gave me results and hope for the future. I
realized that hope was still deep inside of me.
Two years ago I joined a similar group in my area and began
a journey of healthy eating and self-discovery.
I gave up refined sugar and white flour; ate only three meals a day with
nothing between the meals; increased fruits, vegetables and water consumption;
and started reading…really reading…labels of everything that wasn’t a direct
product of nature. I already walked
about a mile a day with my job, but I added extra walks with the dog. Exercising at the gym wasn’t going to work
for me, so I would put on exercise tapes that had been buried in dust in the
basement. Slowly, the pounds started to
fall off.
My support group has been instrumental in solidifying my
self-esteem, my desire to become healthy, and teaching me very fundamental
principles of life. I’ve learned to
NEVER give up hope, to have patience, and to give back at every possible
opportunity. I’ve lost 120 pounds (a
little person) and have maintained this weight for eight months. I have discontinued half of the medications I
used to take. My aches and pains have
almost completely disappeared.
I like myself…no, wait…I love myself!
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Friday, January 3, 2014
Frigid Fragments
Okay, so my friends back in the Lou have another snow day...and probably will have one on Monday as it appears that it's only getting colder. Yay for you! I'm loving reading about everyone hunkering (or is that "honkering") down with a Sherpa throw, cuppa tea and a good book! However, I'm in retail, and today is the "pre-day" to the "One Day Home Sale." I will be ringing, ringing, ringing for all the locals who know how to dress for the weather! On my break, I plan to buy myself a Shark Navigator on sale with the little wad I picked up when I helped corral some shoplifters a few weeks ago. Exciting, no? Hey, I'm living the dream here, folks!
So, to all my family and friends in FL and Cali...."have a nice day" (can you hear my sarcasm?) To everyone else in the country, I pray for warmth and sunshine for you all!
This frigid day is brought to you by Mrs4444 at Half-Past Kissin' Time. Please stop by and find out what creative things are going on with her friends (who are probably as cold, if not colder than me!)
Have a great weekend!
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